Most of articles about
friendship ask about what friendship mean to you. And, I wonder myself of what
hit my mind if it’s talking about friendship. What makes a friend? What is a friend’s role in your
life? So, I question myself to find out my view of friend
and friendship.
Q : Hello Nidy! It seems
you have plenty of friends. Is it important to have many friends?
Me: Well… I don’t have
that many friends. But, I try to be friends with people, some of them are
so-so, some of them are good, and some of them are best. Talking about
important or not, I think, it depends. It’s our nature that we need a
company. Right??
Q : So, what makes them
a friend to you?
Me: Trust, care,
laughter.
Q : People have their
own ideas about the meaning of friend. What about you?
Me: Yeah. I also got my
own version. Friend is someone with whom you can share your dumbness. Lol ^^
Q : How close are you
with your BFs? Any like family?
Me: We’re really close.
They are sister-like friends. But still, friend is friends. Family is family. I
personally think there are boundaries between family and friend. Anyway, they
can be my family-in-law later. Who knows?? Hahaaaahaaa~
Q : There is a quotation
“no secret and no lie between friends”. What do you think about this?
Me: Best friends make a
good medium to share your secret. But not all secret can be told. It depends on
the level of the secret. So, no matter how close we are, I still respect something called "privacy". And, lying to your friend is unnecessary, cause trust
make a good friend. I still can tolerate white lies, though. (shrug shrug)
Q : Have you ever had
conflict with your BFs? And how do you overcome this?
Me: Yes. Once, during
senior high school. I ignored her. I didn’t talk to her for quite long period
of time. I wanted to talk, but I didn’t know how. Then, one day, during class
break because of a ridiculous incident, we became friend again. I felt a
bit awkward at first. But thanks to the conflict, we make a good friendship
than before.
Q : So, you mean, your
friendship became a lot better because of the conflict?
Me: Exactly. I think,
conflict is good. It can measure how deep your friendship are, and to
strengthen the friendship itself.
Q : Ok. One last
question. What would make you end a friendship?
Me: Betrayal and
selfishness. I can’t tolerate people who suffer these diseases.
Q : Thanks for the time. Any word for your friends?
Me: Hmmmm........ FRIEND is FoRever tIll the END. Wish our friendship lasts forever guys. ^^
Me: Hmmmm........ FRIEND is FoRever tIll the END. Wish our friendship lasts forever guys. ^^
Well, that's all the exclusive interview with me.
If you find any
bad idea of mine, no offense.
like the thougt.. not all secret can be told...
ReplyDeletegreat post, thor...
Thanks~~
DeleteEverybody needs privacy, right??
Why don't you write this post too?? Of course in your own version.